Saturday, 8 January 2011 | 11:09 am
Apparently soulmate shouldnt be this easy to come by & the story continues,
Met tongy for brunch on thursday and to keep each other updated about our lives. ;)
Idk why, i can share everything and anything with her (even the most embarrassing and awkward situation that happened to me), but not with huimin and vania.
Reminded me of wanxin though, where I used to share all my most embarrassing moments of my life back in secondary school. I just feel comfortable talking to them, even though wanxin would roll on the floor and laugh like siao when i told her my embarrassing situations, compared to huimin and vania, which i dont feel quite comfortable when they laugh, and even if they didnt laugh.
But i'm glad I finally found someone whom I can share anything and everything with.
It's really good to have such a close friend to share about each other's lives.
I think i've learnt to become more caring and concerned to more people in my lives, even if they're just acquaintances.
Met vania later in the evening to pei her to shop for her CNY clothes at city plaza.
YES, city plaza. xD
I always have the impression that city plaza is a -_- place to shop, but apparently it isnt so.
A place where I used to think that it's for maids and ahmas to hang around where they sell o-biang clothes, turns out to be better than fareast and bugis street imo. Sis agreed to go shopping with me at city plaza the next time. That'll be her first time and my second time going there to shop haha. Shall drag tongy (YES YOU :p) to go there during the semester break too kekeke. Some clothes are quite cheap lah, but there're some slightly expensive clothes too. There's not much jumper and romper though. Vania was searching high and low for it but could only find one nice romper.
Took picture with her at the bus stop usng my MACBOOK! -.- She asked me to bring my macbook to meet her so that we can take pictures. ._. So heavy leh, but nvm because she asked (and i love her)! :) Ask and it shall be given to you. :p
we really took those pictures at the bus stop leh. Ppl were looking at us, but vania dont really care, so i didnt care much abt it too. :p
Met chan mali chan for dinner and went to his house. Watch 'Date Night' in his macbook and didnt know what to do after that. We always dont know what to do whenever we meet sia. And he was suppose to think of what to do lor. Haiyoeh. I still love him for who he is though. x)
Nevertheless, time still past really fast even when we were doing nth/stoning. :\
Many theories exist as to what is a soulmate. The original roots of the concept go back to a belief in reincarnation. A soulmate is someone that you have encountered in many different life times and have loved many times. That is why the first time you meet them in this lifetime you feel as if you have known them forever before you even knew their name. There is a mystical deja vue energy right from the start. Can you have more then one soulmate during your lifetime? Originally, the answer was no. As the definition of the word soulmate has changed, so has that answer. People’s religious and spiritual beliefs deeply affects how they view the concept of soulmates.
It was originally believed that soulmates are created when the creator takes a soul and splits it into two, as it is caste into human form. Each half is supposed to learn the life lessons at their own pace. When the two halves sometimes cross paths during various lifetimes, they have a cosmic powerful bond because they really are of the same soul. They complete each other. They are often very much alike, and the intensity of the connection is too much for a mere human with emotions and issues to handle, so they painfully end up parting ways. When they both finish their lessons, they are both reunited in heaven and come together as a beautiful representation of love and unity. This is also known as your twin flame. Only one person is the other half of your soul.
Loving a soulmate or twin flame is often difficult because we are not usually able to love and accept ourselves, so why would we be able to love the other half of our own soul?
Today, people use the word soulmate to mean anyone that you fall madly in love with and feel the heavens have blessed your relationship. There are people claiming that more and more soulmates are being brought together during this time in history so that they can unite their forces to bring healing and loving energy back to this planet. Since nobody can prove or disprove any of this, who is to say that all of the great loves in your life, were not all soulmates. It used to mean a very rare and cosmic match that shares your same soul.
All love is sacred and holy no matter what you believe about reincarnation and soulmates. We are better off not trying to force it into any one definition or to create a bunch of dogmatic rules around who does or does not get to call their beloved by the name of soulmate.
